Relationships
In my book A Fresh Start, I openly share my the details of my failed relationships and how I overcame. I endured pain and peace. I've loved and lost. I've cried and conquered.
Today. I now have so much love and laughter in my life with my colleagues, friends, peers, family and loved ones. God has blessed me with miracles. I have a large network of love around me. Solid healthy emotionally safe relationships are my main form of currency and the back bone of my success.
In 2015, my social media platform transformed into a Relationship Building Ministry where I share God's works and wonders. I help my audience repair relationships with their family, friends, spouses and themselves while growing closer to God. My platform helps mend broken hearts, transform anxiety into excitement and turns worry into wisdom.
The simple easy-to-read bible verses I share each week provide guidance, wisdom, and encouragement for individuals looking to improve or strengthen their personal relationships. I must say. my Friendship Friday weekly posts on my Facebook and Instagram stories go viral with thousands of views! They have been trending for the last 5 years and are defiantly a fan favorite!
The word ‘relationships’ can mean a lot of different things to each one of you. It can refer to your relationship with God, your dating life, your marriage, your family or your circle of friends. Each one of these relationships are important, and they all require compassion, commitment and care.
Below are 7 Principles of Successful Relationships along with simple bible passages Every interaction I engage in are built around these fundamental truths.
7 Principles of Successful Relationships
1) Love
One of the most prominent themes in the Bible is love. The Bible teaches that love is the foundation of all relationships, and that love should be characterized by selflessness, kindness, and forgiveness. The Bible commands to “love your neighbor as yourself” Mark 12:31 and “love one another as I have loved you” John 15:12
2) Communication
God emphasizes the importance of communication in relationships. Proverbs 15:1 says, “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” This passage highlights the importance of speaking gently and kindly to one another, even in difficult situations.
3) Honesty
Honesty is so important in relationships. Proverbs 12:22 says, “Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who act faithfully are his delight.” This passage emphasizes the importance of being truthful and trustworthy in relationships.
4) Forgiveness
The Bible teaches that forgiveness is essential for healthy relationships. In Matthew 6:14-15 Jesus says, “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”
5) Conflict Resolution
In any relationship, there will be times when you don’t see eye to eye, which may result in some conflict or argument. In these instances, it’s easy to let the anger color our vision and forget all the good we see in the other person. 1 Peter 4:8 says “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” This Bible verse reminds us that in all circumstances, conflicts and challenges we encounter, we must love our partner.
6) Vulnerability
Being vulnerable will result in some of the best relationships of your life. When we share our vulnerabilities with others who care, it forms a bond that empowers us to support each other. God tells us in 2 Corinthians 12:9, “My power is made perfect in weakness.” To God, strength lies in acknowledging our weaknesses and embracing our vulnerability.
7) Self- Respect
It's tough to break up with someone you love. The emotional challenges can be overwhelming, including fear of being alone. For your self-respect, you need to walk away from a toxic relationship. Never compromise on peace and dignity. Proverbs 4:23 says "Guard your heart" Your relationship with yourself is undoubtedly the most important one and the first relationship of your life.